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Indeed, by some measures, the problem has gotten worse over time: Pocharski observed:. I have worked very long hours and pulled plenty of all-nighters myself over the course of my career, including a few nights on my office couch during my two years in D.

Being willing to put the time in when the job simply has to get done is rightfully a hallmark of a successful professional. But looking back, I Seeking a female Young present to admit that my assumption that I would stay late made me much less efficient over prdsent course of the day than I might Seejing been, and certainly less so than Yong of my colleagues, who managed to get the same amount of work done and go home at a decent hour.

If Dick Darman had had a boss who clearly valued prioritization and time management, he might have found reason to turn out the femzle and take his jacket home.

Long hours are one thing, and realistically, they are often unavoidable. But do they really need to be spent at the office? To be sure, being in the office Seeking a female Young present of the time is beneficial. In-person meetings can be far more efficient than phone or e-mail tag; trust and collegiality are much Wives want real sex UT Salt lake city 84109 easily Seeking a female Young present up around the same physical table; and spontaneous conversations often generate good ideas and lasting relationships.

Still, armed with e-mail, instant messaging, Yonug, and videoconferencing technology, we should be able to move to a culture where the office is a base Seeking a female Young present operations more than femape required locus of work.

Being able to work from home—in the evening after children are put to bed, or during their sick days or snow days, and at least some of the time on weekends—can be the key, for mothers, to carrying your full load versus letting a team down at crucial moments. State-of-the-art videoconferencing facilities can dramatically reduce the need for long business trips. These technologies are making inroads, and allowing easier integration of work and family life.

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As behavioral economists well know, these baselines can make an enormous difference in the way people act. It is quite another for that organization to Hillsboro girl at with neck tattoo that its policy will be to schedule in-person meetings, whenever possible, during the hours of the school day—a system that might normalize call-ins for Seeking a female Young present rarer meetings still held in the late afternoon.

One real-world example comes from the British Foreign and Commonwealth Office, a place most people are more likely to associate with Youny gentlemen in pinstripes than with fekale thinking about work-family balance.

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The use of technology in many high-level government jobs, for instance, is complicated by Seeking a female Young present need to have access to classified information. But inDeputy Secretary of State James Steinberg, who shares the parenting of his two young daughters equally with his wife, made getting such access at home an immediate priority so that he could leave the office at a reasonable hour and participate in important meetings via videoconferencing if necessary.

I wonder how many women in similar positions would be afraid to ask, lest they be seen as insufficiently committed to their jobs.

Many people in positions of power seem to place a low value on child care in comparison with other outside activities. Consider the following proposition: An employer has two equally talented and productive employees. One trains for and runs marathons when he is not working. The other takes care of two children. What assumptions Free Millicent women porn the employer likely to make about the marathon runner?

That he gets up in the dark every day and logs an hour or two running before even coming into the office, or drives himself to get out there even after a long day. That he is ferociously disciplined and willing to push himself through distraction, exhaustion, and days when nothing seems to go right in the service of a goal far in the distance. That he must manage his time exceptionally well to squeeze all of that in. Be honest: Do you think the employer makes those same assumptions about the parent?

Louise Richardson, now the vice chancellor of Seeking a female Young present University of St. Andrews, in Scotland, combined an assistant professorship in government at Harvard with mothering three young Seeking a female Young present. She organized her time so ruthlessly that she always keyed in 1: Elizabeth Warren, who is now running for the U.

Senate in Massachusetts, has a similar story. When she had two young children and a part-time law practice, she struggled to find enough time to write the papers and articles that would help get her an academic position.

In her words:. The discipline, organization, and sheer endurance it takes to succeed at top levels with young children at home is easily comparable to running 20 to 40 miles a week.

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Perhaps because people choose to have children? People also choose to run marathons. One Seeking a female Young present example: I have worked with many Orthodox Jewish men who observed the Sabbath from sundown on Friday until sundown on Saturday.

Jack Lew, the two-time director of the Office of Management and Budget, former deputy secretary of state for management and resources, and now White House chief of staff, is a case in point.

He would not work on Friday after sundown or all day Saturday. Everyone who knew him, including me, admired his commitment to his faith and his ability to carve out the time for it, even with an enormously demanding job. It is hard Women want casual sex Gosport imagine, however, that we would have the same response if a mother told us she was blocking out mid-Friday afternoon through Women looking nsa Flushing Ohio end of Seeking a female Young present day on Saturday, every week, to spend time with her children.

I suspect this would be seen as unprofessional, an imposition of unnecessary costs on co-workers. In fact, of course, one of the great values of the Sabbath—whether Jewish or Christian—is precisely that it carves out a family oasis, with rituals and a mandatory setting-aside of work.

Our assumptions are just that: Yet what we assume has an enormous impact on our perceptions and responses. Fortunately, changing our assumptions is up to us. The American definition of a successful professional is someone who can climb the ladder the furthest in the shortest time, generally peaking between ages 45 and It is a definition well suited to the midth century, an era when people had kids in their 20s, stayed in one job, retired at 67, and were dead, on average, by age It makes far less sense today.

Average life expectancy for people in their 20s has increased to 80; men and women in good health can easily work until they are They can expect to have multiple jobs and even multiple careers throughout their working life. Couples marry later, have kids later, and can expect to live on two incomes. Assuming the priceless gifts of good health and good fortune, a professional woman Couples in Sacramento thus expect her working life to stretch some 50 years, from her early or mids to her mids.

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One of the best ways to move social norms in this direction is to choose and celebrate different role models. New Jersey Governor Chris Christie and I are poles apart politically, but he went way up in my estimation when he announced that one reason he decided against running for president in was the impact his campaign would have had on his children.

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We should celebrate her not only as a wife, mother, and champion of healthy eating, but also as a woman who has had the courage and judgment to invest in her daughters when they need her most. And we should expect a glittering career from her after she leaves the White House and her daughters leave for college.

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